Don't Judge, but Love with Tolerance

In our daily lives, it's easy to fall into the trap of judgment. We all tend to criticize or evaluate others according to our own criteria, often without knowing the person's full story. Yet the Bible teaches us that we must not judge others, for in doing so, we expose ourselves to God's judgment.

- Judge not, that ye be not judged." (Matthew 7:1)

This instruction from Jesus invites us to adopt an attitude of compassion and humility. Before we criticize anyone, we must first examine our own hearts to see if we have any flaws or mistakes that we haven't corrected. Jesus explains this idea in the famous passage:

- Why do you see the mote that is in your brother's eye, and not the beam that is in your own eye?" (Matthew 7:3-5)

This shows us that we tend to be quick to judge others when we ourselves are imperfect. To live according to God's will, we need to learn to look within ourselves, recognize our weaknesses and ask for divine grace to overcome them. This is the first step towards a life filled with love and tolerance.

Principles for Living Without Judgment

Check yourself first
Before criticizing or judging someone, take time to examine your own heart. Ask God to help you see your flaws and your need for redemption.
- "Judge not, that ye be not judged: for with the same judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged." (Matthew 7:1-2)
Application: Practice daily introspection and entrust yourself to God in prayer to obtain the necessary wisdom and humility.
Practicing empathy and compassion
Try to understand the other person's situation before passing judgment. Remember that each person has his or her own path, struggles and wounds.
- "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32)
Application: When you meet someone who seems to be struggling, offer them a listening ear and an open heart instead of criticizing them.

Replace judgment with love

True love is shown by accepting others as they are and supporting them in their weaknesses. Jesus calls us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us.
- "Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you." (Matthew 5:44)
Application: Whenever you feel the need to judge, take a moment to pray and ask God to fill your heart with love and forgiveness.

Cultivate a life of prayer and meditation

Prayer allows us to connect with God and renew our spirit. When we pray, we are reminded that God is sovereign and that He knows everyone's heart.
- "Remain in prayer, watch over it with perseverance, and take care that you do not fall into temptation." (Matthew 26:41)
Application: Devote a moment each day to meditation and prayer to strengthen your relationship with God and receive his peace.
Encourage one another in the faith
Build a community that encourages each other to live according to God's will. Share testimonies of healing, forgiveness and redemption to strengthen hope in others.

- "Encourage one another, and build one another up, as you are already doing." (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
Application: Be a support to those you care about, share the Word and offer words of encouragement in difficult times.

An Inspiring Story : The Publican and the Pharisee

One of the most striking accounts of the attitude to judgment is found in the Gospel according to Luke (18:9-14). Jesus tells the story of two men who went to pray in the temple. One was a Pharisee, proud and self-proclaimed, boasting of his good deeds, while the other was a Publican, considered a sinner. The Pharisee stood in the temple, looking down, while the Publican, standing at a distance, could only beat his chest and ask God for forgiveness. Jesus concludes the story by saying:

- "I tell you the truth, he who boasts will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted." (Luke 18:14)

This parable reminds us that judgment and pride only lead to downfall, while humility and acknowledging our needs before God lifts us up. The publican, despite his faults, was accepted by God because he chose to repent and not judge others.

The Benefits of a Life Without Judgment

- Personal liberation: When you stop judging others, you free your mind and heart from resentment.
- Inner peace: Cultivating love and forgiveness brings lasting peace.
- Harmonious relationships: The absence of judgment fosters relationships based on compassion and empathy.
- Spiritual growth: When you focus on God's love rather than other people's faults, you grow in faith.
- Inspiring example: Your life can become a testimony to Christ's love, encouraging those around you to follow this example.

Living with Humility and Love

In short, judgment is often negative, and it doesn't help us grow. The Bible calls us to look within ourselves before judging others, to cultivate humility and respond with love.
Remember that God is the only true judge, and that His love transcends all criticism. By detaching yourself from judgment and adopting an attitude of humility, you open your heart to healing and transformation.

- "For he who judges, judges himself; and he who humbles himself, he himself will be exalted." (Matthew7:1-5)

Today, choose to live in grace and forgiveness. Don't judge others, but encourage them to grow in Christ. May your heart be filled with love, compassion and humility, and may your life reflect the light of Christ.

What actions will you take today to embrace a life without judgment and full of love? May God guide you on this path of peace and redemption.

Amen!