Nous sommes tous pass\u00e9s par l\u00e0. Quelqu’un nous fait une critique constructive et nous sommes imm\u00e9diatement sur la d\u00e9fensive.<\/p>\n
Notre premi\u00e8re r\u00e9action est de justifier nos actions ou de souligner les d\u00e9fauts de l’autre personne.<\/strong> But if we can get past this initial reaction, we'll be surprised how much we can learn from other people's criticism.<\/p>\n Proverbes 10:17 nous dit que celui qui tient compte des critiques est sur le chemin de la vie, mais que celui qui ignore les reproches s’\u00e9gare.<\/strong><\/p>\nCe verset nous rappelle que lorsque nous recevons des critiques, nous devons les \u00e9couter et essayer d’en tirer des le\u00e7ons au lieu de les consid\u00e9rer comme une attaque contre notre caract\u00e8re. La prochaine fois que quelqu’un vous fait une critique constructive, ne soyez pas sur la d\u00e9fensive !<\/p>\n Prenez plut\u00f4t le temps d’\u00e9valuer ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 dit et demandez-vous s’il y a quelque chose \u00e0 en tirer. 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\nBien s\u00fbr, toutes les critiques ne sont pas \u00e9gales. Il y aura toujours des gens qui critiquent juste pour le plaisir de critiquer ou parce qu’ils aiment voir les autres se d\u00e9battre. Mais si la critique vient d’un lieu de pr\u00e9occupation ou de compassion, alors cela vaut la peine d’y r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir.\nComment savoir si la critique vaut la peine d’\u00eatre \u00e9cout\u00e9e ?<\/strong>
\nIl y a quelques questions que vous pouvez vous poser pour vous aider \u00e0 d\u00e9terminer si la critique vaut la peine d’\u00eatre \u00e9cout\u00e9e\n-Who's the critic?<\/strong>
\nS’agit-il d’une personne que vous respectez et admirez ?
\nDoes this person have your best interests at heart?\n-Is the review based on fact or opinion?<\/strong>
\nSi elle est bas\u00e9e sur une opinion, vous pouvez la prendre avec un grain de sel. Mais si elle est bas\u00e9e sur des faits, vous savez qu’il y a peut-\u00eatre une part de v\u00e9rit\u00e9.\n-What's the critic's motive?<\/strong>
\nIs it trying to help you improve in a certain area?
\nOr is he just trying to tear you down?\n-How do you feel after hearing the review?<\/strong>
\nSi vous vous sentez en col\u00e8re ou sur la d\u00e9fensive, c’est un bon indicateur que vous devez prendre le temps de r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir \u00e0 ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 dit avant de r\u00e9pondre. Par contre, si vous vous sentez ouvert et r\u00e9ceptif \u00e0 ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 dit, il y a de fortes chances que la critique vienne d’un lieu d’amour et de pr\u00e9occupation.\n-Is there any truth in what has been said?<\/strong>
\nM\u00eame si la personne qui vous a critiqu\u00e9 ne venait pas d’un lieu d’amour ou de pr\u00e9occupation, il se peut qu’il y ait une part de v\u00e9rit\u00e9 dans ce qu’elle a dit. Il est important d’examiner attentivement ses paroles et de voir si vous pouvez en tirer une le\u00e7on, essayer de tenir compte de toutes les critiques qui ne fera qu’engendrer frustration et anxi\u00e9t\u00e9. Prenez donc le temps de prier \u00e0 ce sujet et demandez \u00e0 Dieu de vous aider \u00e0 discerner les critiques qui m\u00e9ritent votre attention et celles que vous pouvez laisser tomber.\n